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but for me the worst part is that I internalized those messages and it contributed to my low self-esteem and feeling depressed,” Biko said.
As a Black, fat, femme and gender non-conforming individual, Lewis noted that desire comes in many forms, but felt there were pervasive attitudes bubbling beneath the surface of so many expressed dating and sexual “preferences.” “This points to conversations about race, gender, and misogyny,” said Lewis, who is wrapping up a master’s in media studies at The New School.
“The same logic extends to phrases like ‘clean only,’ ‘no ballroom kids,’ ‘no voguers,’ ‘no tr*nnies,’ or ‘white men only’ ...
I think it shows how our contemporary LGBT politics fail us.” Even further, the project calls into question how many LGBT social spaces are intentionally designed to restrict access and exclude members of the community.
Cherno Biko, an activist and one of the subjects of the documentary, told Ravishly that many of the apps don’t offer any options for trans or gender non-conforming people, some only doing so after being challenged on the issue.