How to help victims of dating violence
When we discuss domestic violence, it is often assumed that the victims are women. The less-told story is that a striking number of men are victims, too, suffering physical, mental and sexual abuse in both heterosexual and same-sex relationships.
According to the CDC, one in four adult men in the U. will become a victim of domestic violence during his lifetime.
For help finding the shelters in your community that provide services to men, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1−800−799−7233.
Fear: Domestic Violence Laws Are Stacked Against Men Reality Check: In domestic violence situations, all states offer their courts the ability to issue restraining orders that restrict contact between abusers and victims.
The belief that domestic violence laws and resources don't apply to them. There may be no better time than October's Domestic Violence Awareness Month to clear up a misconception that has persisted for far too long.While women may be the predominant group these agencies serve, many shelters and outreach groups provide services for male DV victims, including safe house shelter and legal assistance.In you are a male seeking help, don't let a shelter's name or title throw you off.It's also okay to ask about what policies are in place to ensure that any information you share will be kept private.Fear: Men Who Seek Help Are Weak Reality Check: Many men don't seek help for domestic abuse because they fear that it will make them look weak. There are few actions that require as much bravery as walking away from an abusive relationship.